Join me for one week where we’ll steady the spirals, make sense of the mess and give you clear, manageable divorce moves for
both your head and your heart.
Monday 24th November - Wednesday 26th November 2025
You never planned for this. Divorce wasn’t in your vocabulary and now it’s everywhere.
In your thoughts at 2am.
In the questions your kids ask at the worst moments.
In the silence between you and the person you used to share a life with.
And the hardest part? You have no idea what to do first.
Your head says one thing, your heart says another.
One moment you’re certain, the next you’re spiralling.
It’s like you’ve been emotionally highjacked. Torn between relief, grief, guilt and fear and some days that’s all before breakfast.
You feel like a rabbit in the headlights.
Too many decisions to make.
No clear order to make them in.
No roadmap, no anchor, no space to breathe.
Everyone has an opinion.
Google has a thousand.
And inside? You feel completely out of control.
“How is this my life? I don’t recognise myself or it anymore”
“I don’t even know where to start. Do I need a lawyer, a plan, a whole new life?”
“Why does it still hurt so much when I know I’m done?”
“I’m exhausted from pretending I’m fine while falling apart inside"
In an ideal world, you’d have a time machine.
You’d skip straight past the chaos, the spirals, the lawyer emails and land neatly in your post-divorce life, feeling whole and free.
But since that hasn’t been invented yet…what you really need is a clear starting point.
Not a fix-all. Not a lifetime plan.
Just the first emotional and practical heartbeats that get you up off the bathroom floor and moving towards something that isn’t just coping, it’s
leading.
You’re ready to:
Feel like your emotions make sense, not like proof you’re failing.
Know what to do first, without needing every answer right now.
Stop spiralling at midnight and start making calm, clear moves.
Feel anchored in a space where you don’t have to explain yourself to be understood.
Because survival isn’t enough.
You’re ready for a way through this that feels steady, clear, human.
Two live 30-min education sessions that focus on the emotional clarity and practical steps I wish I’d had when I was starting my divorce.
Monday 24th November 13.00 GMT: Emotional soothing for your heart.
Tuesday 25th November 13.00 GMT: Practical steps for your head.
Wednesday 26th November 13.00 GMT: One live 60-min Q&A + coaching call
Bring your questions, your fears, your “what do I do about this?” moments.
Simple reflection prompts in between to make this a week of taking back control.
To help you get the noise out of your head and onto paper, so it stops running you.
I know you’re wondering if you’re worth it.
£47 is less than you’d spend on a haircut, a Friday-night takeaway or a tank of petrol and I bet you wouldn’t think twice about any of them.
But instead of being gone tomorrow, this week gives you emotional and practical steps that will make the difference for every decision that follows.
You’re not broken, what you’re feeling is normal.
You’re not the only person feeling like this, other women are in exactly the same state you are.
You have clear, simple steps to take, instead of spirals to get lost in.
This week won’t solve your whole divorce.
But it will change how you hold it.
You’ll go from:
Wondering if you’re failing to realising you’re just human.
Collapsing privately to having tools to steady yourself.
Spiralling at midnight to knowing the first manageable step.
And that shift? It’s everything.
What if I can’t make the calls live? All sessions are recorded. You’ll have replay access for a short period of time.
Is this therapy? No. It’s lived support and practical tools, not clinical counselling.
Will I get to ask my own questions? Yes, in Friday’s Q&A call.
What if I’m not 100% sure about divorce yet? This is available to anyone but you’ll get more out of it if you’ve already decided, whether out loud or in your body.
Ten years ago, I was you.
Standing in the middle of a messy divorce, holding it all together on the outside while quietly falling apart inside. I had a lawyer. I had supportive friends.
What I didn’t have was someone who’d been there, who could tell me the first emotional and practical steps that would actually help. It was all guess work for me and I made a lot of mistakes that cost me time, energy and money.
That’s why I created this week. To give you what I wish I’d had: clarity, steadiness and support that feels like a lifeline, not another to-do list.
You don’t need to figure it all out alone.
This is your first step.
Join Divorce Kickstarter today.
£47 for the emotional and practical anchors that make this season survivable.
